I'll allow only one guess of where it came from.
Here's the deal. OF COURSE my way is right! I already know my child the best and it doesn't matter whether he is my first or my tenth! Ahhhhhh I wish people would just STFU. We are doing just FINE. We don't need help. We don't need advice! We just need to be told over and over and over how adorable our little boy is :)